Victim perspective vs Hero perspective

"It's not fair!"__Anakin Skywalker

Remember this quote? I remember thinking, "What a baby!".

The truth is, it's not always fair.

What sets victims and heroes apart from one another?

๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž.

Here are 3 shifts to move towards a hero perspective:

1. ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ง๐™ž๐™™๐™ž๐™˜๐™ช๐™ก๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ค๐™ก. Victims say they didn't have enough time, they were "unlucky", they just aren't as skilled as that other person. Heros know life doesn't just happen to them, but they can direct the currents of their lives.

2. ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š. Victims say they have no choice. Heros know they always have a choice - even in the direst circumstances. If you don't believe me read about Victor Frankl the holocaust survivor.

3. ๐™๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™Ÿ๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™š๐™–๐™จ๐™ค๐™ฃ. Victims look at their current circumstances and believe that they will never change. Heros know that though it might be hard now, it won't be this way forever. This is just a season.

I'm not sure what you're currently experiencing, but...

You're ridiculously in control, you can choose, and this is just a season.

Change your perspective and live out your destiny.

Your Coach,

Dustyn

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